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鬼殺し wrote:
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鬼殺し wrote:
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Boem wrote:
QED.
It needed to be proven my english is not particularly good?
Anyway, fixed.
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鬼殺し wrote:
I feel for these non-English speakers being forced to use English to get their point across. I really do.
It doesn't come over that way if you feel the need to point it out with a snobbish "see what i mean" attached to it though.
I'm pretty sure you understood my point and wouldn't have been triggered if we were simply talking.
Peace,
-Boem-
edit : not worth, the empathy is an illusion exile.
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Posted byBoem#2861on Feb 1, 2019, 9:05:05 PMOn Probation
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Firstly, I edited that thread to say Rexeos, not Boem.
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Boem wrote:
Still baffled how you think i would post something like this.
This feels, really weird, to be honest reading his post's in that thread.
It says way more about me than it does about you, Boem. It's a whole lot of factors coming together there, probably the main one being that I'm really big on auditory and visual input. Especially sound. Without someone's voice overriding my "read it in my own voice" online default, unless someone is having a direct conversation with me, or I get used to their style/avatar/sig it's easy for people to blur together.
I took Charan's reaction as one similar to those he has had for you.
Thanks for being patient and explaining how you felt about my mistake, and, call me a softie, well aware of the risk of calling this out, but it's really nice to see you two co-existing in this way.
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Charan wrote:
Damn right I got a good laugh. Boem's English isn't stellar but you can generally understand it. Rexeos struggles and doesn't realise it, which results in a very weird mix of obnoxious assertions and tonal confusion. Interacting with that feels like a real waste of time to me: I wouldn't do it IRL and if I did, we'd have visual cues to help get by. More and more often, I find myself less interested in encounters on here that would have no real world analogue. They're unrealistic and frustrating. I feel for these non-English speakers being forced to use English to get their point across. I really do. I imagine there's a huge bias towards English fluency when it comes to discussing pretty much anything globally online, anything from psychology to gardening. That doesn't mean I have to put up with unintelligible English when I want to interact with...y'know, intelligible English.
AAR, neither Boem nor Rexeos are what you'd call My Favourite Human on here, but they're really nothing alike.
I think the no real world analogue is interesting. Can you explain a bit more about what that means to you?
Indeed, I imagine that I'll now see so many differences it'll be ridiculous.
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Boem wrote:
Without mutual respect a conversation cannot occur, in my opinion...
I don't really understand this "people don't deserve human courtesy if they disagree with me or belong to a different political camp" which permeates that topic from both sides.
Sincerely, your not most favorite human running around on this orb.
Something I get passionate about. Without at least a dash of compassion and curiousity, for others, for ourselves, we're all fucked. there's way too little of both compassion and curiousity everywhere. "truth" is something great minds have pondered on for centuries with no clear and simple definition. We need to realise we are all biased, be more humble and humorous about our precious opinions, yet flat-out - some ideas are better than others. Someone will never convince me that conversion therapy is a good idea, for example.
Some ideas are worth setting fire to things for.
Compassion for how someone got to be such a hateful, wrong-headed person is one thing, tolerance of the flawed and harmful consequences is quite another.
Yet - most people are at least a bit open to a seed being planted, not by me, I mean as a larger process of communication. Sometimes that's enough.
Ed: LMAO guys! Ah, I spoke too soon. Well, it was a lovely peace while it lasted.
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Posted byerdelyii#5604on Feb 1, 2019, 9:31:38 PM
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erdelyii wrote:
Some ideas are worth setting fire to things for.
Compassion for how someone got to be such a hateful, wrong-headed person is one thing, tolerance of the flawed and harmful consequences is quite another.
Yet - most people are at least a bit open to a seed being planted, not by me, I mean as a larger process of communication. Sometimes that's enough.
Compassion is a negative emotion though, since it comes forth from pitty which is the act of looking downwards on somebody mentally.
So compasion doesn't create equal "footing" or a solid foundation to help. It might create an illusion of good intent though, but i don't think i have to explain why good intentions dont intrinsically have good outcomes.
And ideas are just that, we all have them, we all gather them, but we are not them.
It's like an intellectual endevour, you are not the idea's and concepts you learn. And the moment you identify with them is the moment you start disregarding the fact you once didn't have them.
At which point you lose the potential to honestly look at people who don't share your idea's and make the distinction they are just like you before actualizing them.
I think that's a part of what i would consider "the intellectual snobishness".
The inability to see your former self in the people who haven't educated themselves.
Which is something i commonly come across when listening/talking with intellectual people.
My mind was rather puzzled by this a few years ago, since my younger self assumed that higher intellect would be capable or spatious enough to allow meta-thinking in this field. But so far i usually encounter very specific oriented intellectual people with a disregard to other fields/layers of the population.
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erdelyii wrote:
Ed: LMAO guys! Ah, I spoke too soon. Well, it was a lovely peace while it lasted.
If it made you laugh, it was worth it?
But hiy, maybe i'm just reading the context wrong, i won't lose any sleep over it either way :)
In fact, apparently i did read it wrong.
Peace,
-Boem-
edit : missunderstandings for all!
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Posted byBoem#2861on Feb 1, 2019, 10:15:32 PMOn Probation
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鬼殺し wrote:
I'm not even sure you know the difference between 'intelligible' and 'intelligent', but it's integral that you do if you're going to respond to me saying 'I find rexeos unintelligible but not Boem'.
And you don't see how posting it like you did could be construed as an overly inflated spelling correction?
And that my interpretation of it somehow shows a lack of comprehension of the words themselves.
"intelectuel" <- with spelling error
"intelligeble" <-- comprehensiveness
"Quod erat demonstrandum"
All good, it's a missunderstanding and your intention was different.
But i find my interpretation reasonable, even if faulty given the format.
Peace,
-Boem-
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Posted byBoem#2861on Feb 1, 2019, 10:26:06 PMOn Probation
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That looks painfull and entirelly unnecessary.
Btw i haven't read your post fully, i'll give your explenation a go next.
Hope that wasn't the cause for head trauma though.
Peace,
-Boem-
edit : rather amusingly, it was the cause for head trauma, don't do that it was not needed.
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Posted byBoem#2861on Feb 1, 2019, 10:32:42 PMOn Probation
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鬼殺し wrote:
Pearls before swine, man. I'm never going to learn.
And this proves my point even more, erd. All that effort I make to explain the difference between 'intelligible' and 'intelligent' and this shallow dismissal is the response I get. Boem isn't engaging with what I said at all, and merely fixating on what they thought was a spelling correction (I was merely quoting them verbatim, because that's how it's done).
Like I said: unnatural and frustrating.
I'll try to paint this as simple as possible to aleviate confusion and frustration.
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Completed 9 Challenges鬼殺し wrote:
AAR, neither Boem nor Rexeos are what you'd call My Favourite Human on here, but they're really nothing alike.
I like to think it's intellectually more interesting to discuss topics with people that disagree or at least have idea's out of your comfort zone and the capacity to undermine your logic.
Which is why i don't see stress/friction as a bad thing or even unwanted.
It's perfectly reasonable for me to not be "Charans favourite human"(god damn that sounds....., seriously) while still having respect and entertain dialogue with you.
Without mutual respect a conversation cannot occur, in my opinion.
I'd pin that on the trump thread if we had that possibility.
I don't really understand this "people don't deserve human courtesy if they disagree with me or belong to a different political camp" which permeates that topic from both sides.
Sincerely, your not most favorite human running around on this orb.
Peace,
-Boem-
I bolted the relevant part i was responding to in that post,
the needless pre-requisite to find people charming or "favorites" in order to actually enjoy conversing with them.
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Completed 9 Challenges鬼殺し wrote:
intelligible
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Completed 24 ChallengesBoem wrote:
intellectual
QED.
edit: it was never about something as simple as a typo. These are two distinctly different words and you confused them.
Obviously, the edit was added later.
I made no such confusion between the words, making the clarification meaningless from my point of view.
Which leaves my interpretation open as a valid option = a spelling correction.
(the format in absence of "not understanding the words", but actually fully comprehending them but making the spelling error thus interpreting the post as a jab)
I enjoyed the albathros poem more so then the barbarian quote, obviously much more potent to accurately convey the meaning of the words.
Which i didn't need explaining, but i can apreciatte the effort and a nice poem i had not read before.
I hope this alleviated your frustration if you had any, because it really isn't worth it over a miscomunication.
Which in reality should have you frantically laughing at this point, given the context of it all.
A miscomunication born from the word inteligible.
That's source material for a fawlty towers episode right there.
Peace,
-Boem-
edit : i like to believe this chain of event is ammusing at least to some
on-lookers :p
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Posted byBoem#2861on Feb 1, 2019, 11:02:02 PMOn Probation
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Need to step out so will come back to it. For now
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鬼殺し wrote:
Barbarus hic ego sum, qui non intellegor ulli -- Ovid
Roughly: I am a barbarian here, for no one understands me.
I drag this quote out now and then to illustrate the importance of mutual communcation but it seems particularly appropriate here. Ovid was one of the great Greek poets of his day, a veritable genius. And yet, for all his prowess and brilliance, once he found himself in a place where no one could understand his language, he was 'a barbarian'. A savage. Unintelligible.
Or then there's this gem from Baudelaire:
[the albatross]
Obviously this is a bit of a self-congratulatory wank about how poets are held back by the everyday man and their inability to understand POETRY, man...but I always read it as an extension of Ovid's lament. In the sky (the albatross' home -- in context, one's native language) the bird is graceful and handsome, but when forced to walk on the deck of a ship (not its home -- in context, not one's native language) it is clumsy and awkward, a thing of ridicule by low-born folk.
...but this is just the albatross' perspective. To the sailors, the albatross is unintelligible and thus assumed unintelligent.
I think that both are more complex than that, and that's why they resonate with you.
It can be seen beside the other view you outlined that Beaudelaire is the sailors, as well as the bird. He's talking about self consciousness when not immersed in creative flow, "flying".
There's nothing the world can inflict on a poet that compares with self-excoriation, being in possession of wicked sharp intellect, broad vision, curiousity, and uncanny insight.
I think that Ovid understood that too. Probably far less weeping, opium and absinthe involved due to cultural differences, but the essential painful self-awareness and loneliness, yes. It's why the theory that the exile was a device makes sense, on some level.
Not all poets might be like this, of course. I suspect most are just a bit like it, all the same.
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Posted byerdelyii#5604on Feb 1, 2019, 11:19:00 PM
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Prefaced by "A Rat?!"
I have a copy of Charles Beaudelaire Complete Poems. The cover is
Mephistopholes Aloft, by Eugene Delacroix
“Delacroix has surpassed my own vision.” This was Goethe’s response to Delacroix’s 1828 lithographs for his drama Faust.
The flying was on my mind when writing that earlier, less-formed post.
Looking into the cover image,
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Delacroix was himself the heroic, isolated figure he depicted, despite the popularity and success he achieved. He lived and worked at a historical moment when artists became independent commodity producers almost wholly subject to speculation, self-promotion, innovation, and a fickle market. The stock subjects and styles that had sustained careers for generations were no longer in demand by the broad new audiences at the annual salon exhibitions, and patronage from church, state, and nobility had markedly declined. In this modern context, imagination and novelty were prized above all else, and the most successful artists were those who either responded to public taste (risking vulgarity or cliché) or took immense risks in order to achieve striking effects. Delacroix generally opted for the second route, and the danger to his life and health was real. His early diary entries, for example, are filled with alternate expressions of doubt, arrogance, paralysis, and hypomania. Whereas conventional historic, mythic, and religious subjects—the Crucifixion of Christ, the Martyrdom of St. Cecilia, the Battle of Alexander at Issus, the Rape of Persephone—allowed libidinal desire to be safely sublimated through approved iconographic traditions and academic formulas, the new circumstances of art, which valued innovation above all and provided few reliable patrons, meant that every new artwork was a leap into the unknown, requiring considerable emotional as well as financial investment. Thus, in Delacroix, we find images of tormented artists such as Dante, Michelangelo, Paganini, and Chopin.
Delacroix wasn’t celebrated by the modernists, from Redon to Picasso, and from Baudelaire to Greenberg, just because he seemed to eschew subject in favor of form, but because he accepted the new circumstances of art-making under the aegis of a market-driven cultural and economic order. He continued to paint many of the same subjects that more traditional artists had, but from a new perspective: that of the isolated artist forced to deploy the complex resources of his own mind and imagination in order to maintain a semblance of autonomy amid a succession of repressive cultural and political regimes.
more here
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He [Baudelaire] told Flaubert once that he wanted to become ‘a pure will constantly in motion’. He must have succeeded, since when Courbet tried to paint him, he had to admit, “I don’t know how to finish Baudelaire’s portrait. His face changes every day’.
That poetic self-focus is ever at risk of being maudlin, self-pitying, frankly exhausting, which leads to what you said Boem about compassion -
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Boem wrote:
Compassion is a negative emotion though, since it comes forth from pitty which is the act of looking downwards on somebody mentally.
So compasion doesn't create equal "footing" or a solid foundation to help. It might create an illusion of good intent though, but i don't think i have to explain why good intentions dont intrinsically have good outcomes.
I was pleased to find a piece that combines these two elements -
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Aquinas would deny the major premise of the preceding argument, drawing
our attention to a significant difference between compassion and pity.21 He
argues that pity is solely an emotional response to another’s distress. A purely emotional response can cause more harm than good, because it can move us to misapprehend a negative situation or respond to it incorrectly. Moving us to respond incorrectly to suffering, emotions render us powerless to discern the cause of the suffering or help the situation. For instance, an employer may hire someone out of pity who lacks the essential skills needed for a job. The suffering this creates will affect all the stakeholders in the company and eventually create even more suffering for the person he pitied.
Moreover, a purely emotional response isn’t a virtue because virtue involves choice. Pity, like any mere feeling, can well up in us without us choosing to feel it. In fact, there are some feelings (anger, jealousy, envy) we would choose not to feel if we had a choice in the matter. Compassion or mercy, on the other hand, comes from the will, the rational desire. In other words, we choose to extend compassion or mercy to someone.
Because compassion involves choice and isn’t simply an ephemeral feeling, it stays with us long enough for us to assist the sufferer. Because it has an intellectual component as well as feeling, the compassionate person is able to identify a practical solution.
The Dalai Lama concurs that compassion, as a virtue, doesn’t imply pity. Like
Aquinas, he says that compassion ‘‘belongs to that category of emotions which
have a more developed cognitive component.’’ His Holiness describes compassion
as a combination of empathy and reason. He writes that compassion
or mercy must be ‘‘accompanied by wisdom’’ so ‘‘that it is put to the use of
others.’’24 Then the compassionate person can offer genuine practical assistance to those who need it. Aquinas would add that the reasoning component the Dalai Lama discusses is found within the act of choice, which follows from deliberation. While all people, at one time or another, may feel a pang of pity, not everyone makes the choice to exercise compassion.
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Boem wrote:
And ideas are just that, we all have them, we all gather them, but we are not them.
It's like an intellectual endevour, you are not the idea's and concepts you learn. And the moment you identify with them is the moment you start disregarding the fact you once didn't have them.
At which point you lose the potential to honestly look at people who don't share your idea's and make the distinction they are just like you before actualizing them.
I think that's a part of what i would consider "the intellectual snobishness".
The inability to see your former self in the people who haven't educated themselves.
Which is something i commonly come across when listening/talking with intellectual people.
My mind was rather puzzled by this a few years ago, since my younger self assumed that higher intellect would be capable or spatious enough to allow meta-thinking in this field. But so far i usually encounter very specific oriented intellectual people with a disregard to other fields/layers of the population
Peace,
-Boem-
I suspect you'll find the article interesting then, based on that.
I think that artistic types do well to exercise self-compassion, as opposed to self-pity.
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Charan wrote:
I imagine my response to Boem explains this a little bit, but plainly put, I typically don't socialise much outside of my long-established circles and I know what each of my friends likes to discuss, what sets them off, what we can explore together. There is no fear of linguistic barriers causing friction or unnecessary conflict. I see no point in discussing topics that require a high competency in a language with someone who doesn't have that. And in real life, if you do do that, it can come across as rude, imposing, 'snobbish', etc. You read the room, so to speak. Or as the Japanese put it, Kuuki o yome, 'read the atmosphere'. To be KY in Japanese (Kuuki o yomenai -- unable to read the air) is to be socially awkward to an unpleasant, clumsy degree.
In contrast, the net has for decades brought people together in very unnatural ways -- and it remains dominated by English, although platforms like Weibo are friggin' huge these days. My first experience of a chat room was an English-speaking anime community on Geocities, circa 1996 I believe. Not long after that, Battle.net. Again, the chatrooms were overwhelmingly English. There were rooms for other languages but there was never a dedicated 'English' room. And I think that was my first exposure to what I perceive as the unfairness of the internet -- if you're a native English speaker or fluent enough to be consistently intelligible, you are able to move through communities about anything else in English. You can be selective with what sorts of people you hang out with. Personality can dictate your associations on here. But if English isn't your first language, you either have to learn it OR be shoved into a community bound only by one thing: that language. Doesn't matter if you don't get along with the other people, they're 'your' people. This is 'your' channel. It has your language's name on it. GET ALONG.
I really do feel bad about that. But I get the necessity of it. The victor writes the code, so to speak. Who invented the internet? English-speaking folk. Who first used it? The same. Who propagated it? And so on. That said, even had the Chinese invented the net, I have no doubt Westerners would have treated it the same way they treated noodles: remake it to their taste and call it pasta. Dare I say, copypasta? Muhahahaha.
Language barriers are not such a big problem in real life. For all our global interactions on here, most of us exist in much more comfortable bubbles away from the computer. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. It has been that way for millennia, and until we figure out some sort of global language, it'll remain that way. Should there be a need for interlingual communication, we have translators, or we can learn for ourselves, if the need isn't at a high fluency level. I find European folk a little less comfortable with this because they have been raised multilingually, at least academically. And at the other end of the spectrum you have the Americans, who were born the victors and can't understand why the rest of the world won't just speak the same damn language as them. Not even the British, who lay harder claim to English than the US by centuries, are that intolerant -- but I suppose that's the result of post-colonial guilt and subsequent openness to cultures they'd formerly merely appropriated.
Fuck, what was the question again?
It was asking what the real world analogue was that you meant.
I think that this -
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Charan wrote:
Pearls before swine, man. I'm never going to learn.
And this proves my point even more, erd. All that effort I make to explain the difference between 'intelligible' and 'intelligent' and this shallow dismissal is the response I get. Boem isn't engaging with what I said at all, and merely fixating on what they thought was a spelling correction (I was merely quoting them verbatim, because that's how it's done).
Like I said: unnatural and frustrating.
Boem came back though and did respond.
Still, I get what you mean. One of the reasons I started posting more was that you responded to my posts. I think others may respond because you use my handle and your status here rubs off. I certainly don't kid myself that the things I find fascinating are of any interest to most people on a video game forum no less.
I think you get the incongruousness of it too.
I often chuckle that you've encouraged me posting the collation style posts I enjoy so much.
Your ability to hold forth at length on topics off the cuff is marvellous in this medium.
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Boem wrote:
A miscomunication born from the word inteligible.
That's source material for a fawlty towers episode right there.
Peace,
-Boem-
edit : i like to believe this chain of event is ammusing at least to some
on-lookers :p
Ees hamster!!
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Charan wrote:
That really has nothing to do with intelligibility but instead intelligence. Indeed, without intelligibility, you can't 'discuss topics with people that disagree or at least have ideas out of your comfort zone' because you won't understand them enough to even know that's what they're saying.
Hence my subsequent clarification on the difference between intelligible and intelligent. And I would NOT blame anyone who isn't a native speaker for confusing the two words. The more I thought about it, the more I realised I believe even native speakers often confuse the two.
Yes, they are intimately connected
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intelligence (n.)
late 14c., "the highest faculty of the mind, capacity for comprehending general truths;" c. 1400, "faculty of understanding, comprehension," from Old French intelligence (12c.) and directly from Latin intelligentia, intellegentia "understanding, knowledge, power of discerning; art, skill, taste," from intelligentem (nominative intelligens) "discerning, appreciative," present participle of intelligere "to understand, comprehend, come to know," from assimilated form of inter "between" (see inter-) + legere "choose, pick out, read," from PIE root *leg- (1) "to collect, gather," with derivatives meaning "to speak (to 'pick out words')."
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intelligible (adj.)
late 14c., "able to understand, intelligent," from Latin intelligibilis, intellegibilis "that can understand; that can be understood," from intellegere "to understand, come to know" (see intelligence). In Middle English also "to be grasped by the intellect" (rather than the senses). In English, sense of "capable of being understood, that can be understood" first recorded c. 1600. Related: Intelligibly.
Now, that thing about the Romans?
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Friction between huge social groups is detrimental to the survival of the species of a whole. So it stands to reason that the assimilation or destruction of either party is required to re-instate social equilibrium.
Something like "war comes before peace". Not because people enjoy war, but because it's a pre-requisite to attain the next peace stadium.
Didn't the romans utilize a similar strategy historically? Conquer, wage war with a different social group and then assimilate their culture afterwards to produce peace.(relative concept of peace here, obviously not as we know it today)
The motivation seems obvious at that point, more people allow for exponentially complex tasks or power, increasing the species survival as a whole.
The intelligence in relation to my tangent is creative inteligence opossing physical intelligence.
The scolar vs the macho, stupidly simplified but it should do to get my point across.
I'm still not sure that short term group goals are in the best interests of the species as a whole, or that the Romans aim was peace. From a scientific point of view?
Anyone?
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Posted byerdelyii#5604on Feb 2, 2019, 4:33:47 AM
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Huh, you did too [called Ovid Greek]
The Latin made it clear you know where he was at.
I am happy to finally have remembered the name of the book that was niggling at me at your metnion of Ovid and exile, and that I read some years ago. It definitely informed my picture of Ovid even though I knew it wasn't accurate -
An Imaginary Life, by David Malouf.
I did have a brief google earlier but with the wrong terms; it's not a well-known book, which is a shame, as it's beautiful.
“I have stopped finding fault with creation and have learned to accept it. We have some power in us that knows its own ends. It is that which drives us on to what we must finally become… This is the true meaning of transformation. This is the real metamorphosis.”
― David Malouf, An Imaginary Life
It is helpful to be clear about what this novel is not doing or attempting to do. David Malouf is not attempting to portray the real Ovid. Indeed, little is really known about Ovid, save for that which can be guessed from his substantial body of work. What is known, however, suggests that he was not quite as romantic or deeply sensitive as Malouf would have him. The last of the great Augustan poets, Ovid is usually seen as the least profound of the group and, in many ways, closest to the high sophistication of Roman society. Malouf is aware of this, and his afterword to the novel is helpful in revealing his intentions for the Ovid of what is cheerfully admitted is “an imaginary life,” taking for its basis a character whose response to adversity has lyrical and mystical implications which are not to be found in the work of the historical Ovid, whom Malouf perceptively calls “this glib fabulist.”
The character who dominates this novel, and who is the sole speaker in the same, is a man of considerable range of feeling. The first-person narration allows for an intimacy which is enriched by the fact that Ovid is speaking directly to a later audience, to the modern reader, presuming that this record of his life will be read some centuries hence. This tale of exile, of the pain and suffering in both the physical and psychological sense visited upon the mature darling of high Roman society, is not seen by Ovid as meaningless, and the manner in which he responds to squalor and barren poverty is shaped with some propriety in poetic terms....
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Charan wrote:
oh, hey. so. real world analogue. Did I answer it? Somewhere in there I think I did. But let's be really direct: the real world analogue of what we do here would be a splinter group of bored students at an international symposium for the same broad school of thought hiding in the basement trying to discuss *anything* but that school of thought. Needless to say, it's usually a disaster and the rest of the students at the symposium are like 'why the fuck are you even here?' but occasionally get dragged into our inane topics because madness is fucking contagious when you keep it in the basement and leave the door unlocked so innocent passers-by can hear the crazy howls of manic laughter...
Hahahaha, we're too slow - paced and reasonable to be manic. Perhaps maniacal?
This scene came to me -- I get the allure of hothousing hysteria ...
I heard a noise!
Makes me cry laughing. Have you seen it yet?
Anyway,
all the best people are :XD
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erdelyii wrote:
I was pleased to find a piece that combines these two elements -
It's an enjoyable read and i have read some works of the dalai lama in the past and find his concepts and angle's on society interesting to say the least.
Maybe i should clarify why i think compasion is still derived from pity(which they don't disclaim) and this in itself is a bad thing.
they utilize the compasion of angelina jolie in that piece and her aid to suffering parts.
Now, there is no doubt in my mind that the people she reached out to and helped have great gratitude towards her, at the same time i believe they also "look up" to her and not in the sense of "i can become like her one day".
In my mind, what she did in the context of the people she helped out was "inhuman", she singlehandedly achieved what would probably take the local people a couple thousands to realize.
In the intellectual sense of that article "it is a poorly thought out form of compasion derived from pity".
If i had to connect a positive form of compasion using that article as a foundation, it would correlate to the passage where the dalai lama discusses "respect".
It recognizes the other as a potential "you" given the right conditions(former,current,future) which makes you strive for their betterment without mental heightening.(or lowering)
This makes whatever your ego has assembled/identified with pre-aiding that person irrelevant, since the other is "you" just with a different composition, enabling superfluous empathy.
The suffering is you, the aid is you, the one helped is you, the gratitude is you.
I believe this achieves desired results without what i think buddhism would call "kharma"?
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erdelyii wrote:
I'm still not sure that short term group goals are in the best interests of the species as a whole, or that the Romans aim was peace. From a scientific point of view?
Anyone?
Peace in the sense of "absence of social turmoil/distrust" is what i am implying was the goal.
Which is a requirement for cooperation within large social groups.
The strategy obviously fails given enough time, but it's a strategy still utilized today from which we could derive that nature has sellected for it.
(it would have been replaced with a more efficient way if this where not the case)
I'll have to reread the previous post about the short therm goal part, because i fail to recollect how we got to that part.
My instinct says "short therm goals are not in the interest of the species, but for the group and as a result of that group surviving, the species survives as a whole" but i would have to re-read context.
Peace,
-Boem-
Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes
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Posted byBoem#2861on Feb 2, 2019, 4:38:18 PMOn Probation
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