Map deaths hurt, and that is a good thing

Im playing another POE-like while Im waiting for the new season, im which deaths do not matter and it just completely lacks the tension, the thrill that POE 2 has. I died a lot in POE 2, lost progress and items, which did hurt a lot. But when death dont matter it's almost like me playing does not matter.

My singular gripe is the punishment can be too brutal with bosses, BC I simply dont remember all boss moves. Youll lose XP, the waystone, all map modifiers, all tower modifiers and in coop the game crashes immediately - which of course needs to be fixed. Just let me retry the bosses, it's the best part of the game. I wouldnt mind keeping the league mechanics too, but just let me git gud with the bosses.