Gem equip and potion use causing immense frame drop and screen lag

I recently have a bug where I now have a infinite sound loop of gem equipping as well as potion uses which is causing my frames to drop down to 40hz and causing my game to run extremely slow to a point I have to crash it every time I equip a gem or use a potion. This just started today, I have reset internet multiple times, restarted the console as well as unplugged the console, I've even un-installed and reinstalled the game and it did not fix the issue.

I think people have mentioned that this bug occurs due to no longer meeting the stat requirements for all socketed support gems.

You can fit one red support gem for every 5 Strength, one green for every 5 Dexterity, and one blue for every 5 Intelligence. Try unequipping some support gems, and see if you're lacking the stats to resocket them.

this is an issue I'm having on poe2 but I looked over everything and have all requirements met, this issue also happens when I use potions it causes my frames to drop down to 2 and I have to force crash my whole system to fix it

Bloodstone Wrapped Quarterstaff is the cause of the issue. upon removing gear and equipping I found when I removed the staff the issue stopped, when I re-equipped the staff, everything started vibrating in my gear, the sound loop came back as well as frame rate drops. soon as I removed the staff it all stopped. nothing on the staff states I'm under any requirements to use.