Take out respawns of mobs and loss of items on death

So this game is great, I have been enjoying it, however there is a major pain point that makes me not want to play at all. When you are of or just over the level of an area the almost insta one shot mechanics get annoying really quickly and when you make significant progress into a zone and end up getting killed by these one shots all the mobs that you beat come back and you end up spending literal hours trying to get around a corner. Please stop the instant respawn of mobs.

Then when you make great strides on a boss and end up killing him and then you die a second later to a dot with no flask charges that loot is now gone forever, oh hey there was a unique in that pile, but since I died I don't get any of it.

These are big points to other diablo style games that make you feel like you are not wasting your time. Here in your game it feels like you have no respect for our time and commitment. Please fix this.